Saturday, January 25, 2014

There Is Group Support For Sex Addiction In Most Areas

By Nelda Powers


A sex addiction is defined as being similar to an addiction to alcohol, drugs or food. There is group support for sex addiction just as there is for alcoholics. The sexual addict should not be confused with the sexual deviant who has a compulsion for an abnormal and often illegal sexual practice.

The addict should not be confused with the deviate. The sexual deviate is obsessed with abnormal practices that are usually against the law.

The nonparaphilic addict has a pattern of behavior in which he or she repeats intercourse and other acceptable practices. It is the frequency and indiscriminate choice of partners that brands him or her as an addict. The addiction may be to porn on the internet rather than in person.

Before individual or group therapy can begin, the individual should have an examination to make certain there is no physical reason for the behavior. Then the feelings of helplessness, withdrawal symptoms and the ever escalating need for more intense sexual activity can be confronted and recovery attempted.

Other conditions may exacerbate the problem. Some that may occur are depression, panic disorder or anxiety disorder. A care plan should acknowledge and deal with these as well as the addiction. Each support session may be held under the direction of a social worker, psychologist or psychiatrist.

Someone who has experienced a sexual addiction and recovered would make a good leader as well. Perhaps a support group had a significant effect on his recovery. The main benefit of turning to other people for support is interacting with those who are experiencing similar problems.

A support group is intended to be anonymous, much like alcoholics anonymous operates. Members share feelings and problems without fear of being judged by other members. Everyone is on a first name basis.

An important thing to remember is there are some situations that must be avoided. These are called triggers. They can be smells, sounds or sights that bring to mind the excessive need for sex. Each individual must learn to recognize what his or her triggers are to aid recovery.

There are a variety of places that are available to help people suffering from a sexual obssession. Some are led by a professional and are considered to be therapy. Others may or may not have a professional in the leadership position. Any gathering should make the participants feel comfortable with discussing their personal situation with other members.

Four kinds of meetings exist. One is for males. Another is for females. The third is for mixed gender and the fourth is a gathering of the significant others who are suffering along with the addicts. That group can benefit by learning new coping skills from talking to others in their difficult situation.

There are a high number of sexual fanatics who begin by watching porn on the internet. In some cases, partners watch the videos together. But, when only one is spending a lot of time on the internet, it detracts from the real-life relationship. Recovery can be propelled by participation in the available group support for sex addiction. Learning about the experiences of others seems to be of comfort.




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